A Complete Timeline Of Each Of The Relationships Ariana Grande Name-Drops In 'Thank U, Next'

The opening lyrics to ’s “thank u, next” call out each of her most prominent exes: Big Sean, Ricky Alvarez, Pete Davidson, and Mac Miller. In the verse she says a little something about what each guy means to her, and why it’s good that they’re no longer together. The song culminates in a chorus in which Grande reveals that through these four relationships she’s learned to love herself, which makes the whole song the sweetest clapback ever recorded.

Grande’s verse is good, but it doesn’t provide any of the juicy details that fans want to know about each of these guys. Sure, Sean “wasn’t a match,” but why? And why is she laughing about songs she wrote about Ricky Alvarez? The stories are too tantalizing to brush aside in the name of poetic license, so we’re diving into the backstories behind each of the exes mentioned in “thank u, next.” Which one of these exes taught Ari love? Who taught her patience? And who taught her how to handle pain?

Big Sean

The Lyric: “Thought I’d end up with Sean/But he wasn’t a match”

The Relationship: Grande and Big Sean started dating in 2014, but they kept it under wraps for a while. The two met when Sean contributed vocals to her second album My Everything, and then he added some whispering to the single “Problem.” While on tour, Grande and Sean got hot and heavy during their performance of “Best Mistake.”

The Breakup: Big Sean and Grande amicably called things quits in 2015 because they were both busy. At the time, a representative for the two released a statement saying, “They both care deeply for each other and remain close friends. We kindly ask that the media respect their wish for privacy regarding this personal matter at this time.” An unnamed source close to both artists told E! News, “This was really difficult for them to publicly call it quits, but they thought it would be better this way so people know there is no bad blood between them at all.”

How He Responded To The Song: According to Grande, Big Sean heard “thank u, next” before it was released. When a fan made a joke about Sean and another one of her exes, Ricky Alvarez, hearing the track, she responded, “They heard it before it came out.” Sean hasn’t publicly said anything about the track.

Ricky Alvarez

The Lyric: “Wrote some songs about Ricky/Now I listen and laugh”

The Relationship: Ricky Alvarez started working as a back up dancer for Grande around 2015, and his first major appearance was in the video for “Problems.” It’s unclear when they started seeing each other, but it was likely on the Honeymoon Tour where they started smooching onstage during. However, once they were spotted making out in Wolfee Donuts in Lake Elsinore, CA, the cat was out of the bag.

The Breakup: The duo split in 2016, and while there wasn’t a press release this time around, fans figured out what had happened when the singer began liking tweets that said “forever boy canceled,” before tweeting “life is wild and change is f*cking fantastic.”

How He Responded To The Song: According to Grande, Alvarez heard the song before it was released, and he was cool with the whole thing. On her Instagram story, Grande admitted that Alvarez got the “worst line” in the song, but he was chill about the whole thing and posted his own instagram story saying that he had “nothing but gratitude” for the singer.

Pete Davidson

The Lyric: “Even almost got married/And for Pete, I’m so thankful”

The Relationship: Pete Davidson and Grande first met while Grande appeared on Saturday Night Live in March 2016. They did some bits together, but at the time it just seemed like these two were goofing around. Some gossip sites that the two were seeing each other casually, but that changed in May 2018 when Davidson posted a pic of the two on Instagram dressed in Gryffindor robes along with the caption, “The chamber of secrets has been opened.” For the next few weeks the two basically existed only in each others’ Instagram accounts.

By June 11, 2018 the two were engaged. Nick Cannon later said that Davidson called him before popping the question.

The Breakup: On October 14. 2018, Davidson and Grande officially announced their separation, but all the signs were there: Davidson covered up his bunny ears neck tattoo, Grande said she wanted some privacy, and Davidson even joked about the two breaking up on SNL a few weeks earlier.

From the outside, the breakup looked to be a mutual thing, with a friend saying, “It was way too much too soon.” Then things were back on, but the engagement was off then on again, and then Davidson joked about their failed engagement in an SNL promo and that definitely upset the singer. She wrote, “for somebody who claims to hate relevancy u sure love clinging to it huh” on Twitter before quickly deleting the messages.

How He Responded To The Song: Davidson was pretty cool about the whole thing, and rather than get too snarky on SNL he quickly addressed the breakup via “Weekend Update.” He told viewers, “I know some of you are curious about the breakup, but the truth is it’s nobody’s business. Sometimes things just don’t work out, and that’s OK. She’s a wonderful, strong person, and I genuinely wish her all the happiness in the world.” As Michael Che signed off Davidson added,  “I’m still a great song though.”

Mac Miller

The Lyric: “Wish I could say, ‘Thank you’ to Malcolm/’Cause he was an angel”

The Relationship: Mac Miller and Grande’s romance goes back to her 2013 video for “The Way” where the two made out vigorously. However, Miller insisted she was a “homie,” and not a romantic partner. Two years later Miller leveled up from homie status to full-on boyfriend in an Instagram post from September 6 when they announced their couple status with a post simply captioned “baabyyy.”

The Breakup: Grande ended her relationship with Miller in 2018 after his admitted drug abuse began to spiral out of control. According to a friend close to Miller, Grande was a rock for the rapper, and they were “very much in love.” They continued, “She was incredible when he was first sobering up. She was a f*cking G to him. There could not have been anybody more supportive of him being sober than Ariana.”

After their breakup, Miller was arrested for a DUI and a fan blamed Grande for the incident, specifically because Miller recorded an album about her. The singer responded to the fans, saying, “How absurd you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them, which by the way isn’t the case (just ‘Cinderella’ is ab me).”

In 2018, Miller appeared on Zane Lowe’s Beats 1 show and discussed Grande and the overwhelming amount of coverage that she and her then-boyfriend Pete Davidson were getting. He told Lowe that he “kind of knew, but not really.” He continued saying that he was happy she was moving on with her life.

How He Responded To The Song: Sadly, Miller passed away in September 2018, two months before the release of Grande’s track.